Chapter 2: Human catharsis
A. Catharsis as such
The following account is based on intensive work done in co-counselling
over many years. The focus throughout is on the discharge of what I have called
personal as distinct from physical distress.
- The discharge of grief occurs through crying and sobbing. The
repressed client will permit the tears but restrain the sobbing, yet the deeper
layers of pain are released in uninhibited convulsive sobbing. Aware physical
support, holding, embracing may be needed by the client for her to feel secure
enough to allow this convulsion to occur. As the physiological process occurs,
the pain of separation, of love frustrated pours into consciousness and is
fully experienced.
- The discharge of fear occurs through trembling and cold
perspiration. The limbs, hands, head and neck and trunk, jaw are caught up in a
high frequency trembling, while the person experiences the fear of the unknown,
the unfamiliar, the psychological invasion or threat, of lack of comprehension.
The fear discharged may be a fear of unfamiliar positives such as love,
ecstasy, orgasm, pleasure, as well as unfamiliar negatives. Fear especially
seems to lock and block automatically in the system, and it can be a revelation
to the withdrawn, dogmatic, isolated person to experience the dissolution of
that rigidity in the release of fear.
- The discharge of anger occurs through an uninhibited
high-frequency burst of sound and storming movements. It is righteous
indignation mobilising the breath, the voice and the whole musculature, arms,
legs and pelvis: the protest "How dare you!" released somatically. Repressive
controls inhibit sound and movement through muscular contraction: and the
client will often need training and encouragement to remove these blocks. The
associated experience is that of extreme, fiery indignation and protest.
- Anger at the level of personal frustration, when human autonomy
is interrupted and interfered with, is a kind of spiritual anger. In my view
its discharge is only effective when it is entirely harmless, that is, when it
is released onto old cushions, mattresses or into the air. The discharge of
anger needs to be carefully distinguished from aggressive attack, which I see
as a distortion resulting from undischarged fear and anger. There is all the
difference in the world between the tone of "How dare you!" and the tone of
"Take that! And that!" The theory holds that destructive, aggressive behaviour
in humans will decrease as a function of its underlying repressed fear and
anger being harmlessly discharged. This distinction is quite crucial when it
comes to the effective education of those who are acting out in very
destructive ways. When a person is breaking up property, other people or
herself, her attention is displaced away from and is avoiding experience of the
full force of deep inward fiery outrage and protest: it is a maladaptive
attempt to deal with the buried anger. Aggression grapples with the opponent to
avoid experiencing the pain of outrage. This notion of a spiritual, human anger
and its need for a consuming, intensive but harmless release is very little
understood in the culture. But the need for education here is enormous, for
repressed anger is acted out in a great deal of physical and verbal battering.
- The discharge of embarrassment occurs through full,
uninhibited laughter. The top layer of embarrassment appears to be a light
social fear of what other people will think, say or do about one's appearance
or behaviour. A slightly deeper layer is that of light indignation at such
intimidation. The combination releases as laughter. A person who is open to the
release of distress will find that laughter may pass over suddenly into the
trembling release of fear or the storming release of anger, deeper tensions
which the release of surface embarrassment uncovers. As the laughter of
embarrassment rolls off, the experience is that of the break up of the
previously unidentified rigid fear of the opinion of others.
- Embarrassment presents itself congealed in repressive solemnity,
sobriety, seriousness, which has a rigid, inflexible quality, trapping the
lightness, the brightness, the flexible awareness of the true human beneath it.
As the laughter rolls, the flexible human beams out, and the solemn mask falls
temporarily away. There is no more delightful sight than seeing a person
beaming with laughter, a full release of embarrassment for the first time, the
old controls trying to slip the mask on again but failing since a fresh burst
of laughter sends the mask once more clattering to the floor. Embarrassment is
clearly a very substantial part of human distress at the personal level.
- The human spirit or person, I believe, is innately and
spontaneously light and joyful. The roots of embarrassment lie in the social
intimidation or repression of this innate spontaneity. The growing child
quickly gets the message that the abundance of her spontaneous joy is not
socially acceptable, indeed is intolerable to the distressed adults around.
Fundamentally, what embarrassment represses is the easy, elegant joy of the
child - but not simply of the child but of the authentic adult too - hence the
laughter that discharges embarrassment is very close to and often continuous
with the laughter that expresses delight and joy in being human. Human
development groups that never sparkle with richly human laughter still labour
under a weight of unidentified and unresolved embarrassment.
- The discharge of guilt and shame. Guilt or remorse is to be
distinguished from shame. Guilt is the distress emotion that can arise with the
realisation that one has hurt another person, whereas shame is the distress
emotion associated with the realisation that one's behaviour has been
inadequate, has let the side down, has fallen short of expected standards, even
though nothing hurtful has been done.
- Furthermore there is a crucial distinction between redundant
guilt and shame, and genuine guilt and shame. The former arise in a person
indoctrinated with false and inauthentic values: a person feeling both guilt
and shame about sex within a loving marriage; a man feeling shame at sobbing
when someone he loves dies; a person still feeling guilty about wanting to
reject what she can clearly see to be false and unjust authority, whether
religious, political or domestic; and so on. Genuine guilt arises when a person
has insight into the hurtful effects on another caused by her behaviour, where
such effects were avoidable and served no wider constructive purpose. Genuine
shame can arise when a person through some lapse or oversight or compulsive
irresponsibility falls short of a valid social standard: defaulting on an
important appointment, producing sub-standard work.
- Redundant or false guilt and shame are really chronic forms of
embarrassment and will usually discharge off as laughter together with some
release of fear and anger through trembling and storming. Genuine guilt is like
self-generated grief: the special kind of grief that follows from knowing that
I have rejected the need of the one I have hurt to be loved, and that I have
frustrated my own need to love that person. The primary discharge of such guilt
is through tears and sobbing where the pain of guilt is intense. There may well
be some associated anger too - frustration at the particular set of
circumstances that interrupted my capacity to take intelligent choices in the
situation. Finally, laughter will resolve any penumbra of false guilt that may
have gathered around the genuine guilt.
- Genuine guilt is often a higher order or reflexive distress: I
distress myself still further because my already distress-distorted behaviour
hurts another person. Genuine guilt often gets taken over by the already
existing repressive controls, so that a person entertains compulsive guilt
rather than release and experience in full the pain of the underlying
self-generated grief.
- Genuine shame, where others have been disappointed rather than
hurt, is an altogether lighter form of distress. It is, if you like, genuine
embarrassment, and as such it will discharge in laughter; although of course
there is the deeper issue of what led to the sub-standard performance in the
first place. What I have called embarrassment in the previous subsection is
really redundant, false shame, but of a continuously present, socially
pervasive kind, whereby the person's authentic self-expression is intimidated
by false values programmed into the psyche, a programme which is triggered to
play in almost every social situation.
- The discharge of disgust. Disgust is a distress emotion
closely associated to physical nausea, hence part of the discharge may be a
genuine vomit reflex or a symbolic or pseudo vomit reflex. Disgust, as a
personal distress, as distinct from the purely physical disgust reaction to an
unpleasant smell or other noxious stimulus, is a distress emotion that may
arise in response to chronically distorted behaviour in oneself or in others.
Apart from the actual or symbolic vomit reflex the discharge of disgust largely
reduces to the discharge of fear through trembling, since in my view the core
of personal disgust is fear at the invasion of the psyche or of relationships
by blind, irrational, distorting energies, with associated grief at the
interruption of shared loving thus induced.
- Compulsive and distorted sexual interaction may result in a
combination of personal and physical disgust in which nausea, fear and anger
will be interwoven components.
- The discharge of boredom. Boredom, like guilt, shame and
disgust, can be a reflexive distress. Behaviour already shut-down and
distorted, so that genuine options and possibilities are internally restricted,
the person feels bored. It can also be a genuine frustration induced by an
uninteresting meeting or encounter. The underlying core distress appears to me
to be anger, and is discharged accordingly.
- The discharge of physical fatigue and tension as such. All
catharsis of personal distress involves a release of somatic as well as
emotional tension. But there are clearly physical tensions sui generis,
such as fatigue and muscle tension that cannot be reduced back to psychogenic
factors. The discharge of these appears to involve deep, repetitive yawning and
stretching.
B. Components of cathartic
release
Catharsis is much more than mere emoting, A comprehensive account
includes, in my experience. the following:
- Balance of attention. The
person is aware of, in touch with, the distress emotions, but also has some
awareness focused outside the distress - on the supportive presence of another
person, on some thoughts, words that contradict (but do not repress) the pain
of the distress. When attention is balanced in this way between the distress
and what is outside it, a psychodynamic leverage is maintained that tips the
distress emotions into discharge. Buried pain, when strongly activated just
below the threshold of experience of it, soaks up awareness and attention: the
client is in a heavy, down, immobile, depressed emotional state and is either
heavily resistant to catharsis or cannot elicit it if she wants to. When a
person is sunk or swamped by heavy distress in this way, then she needs to take
some attention away from distress emotions (without repressing them) in order
to liberate enough conscious slack in the system to free the discharge. If I go
away from distress emotions but remain open to them, then by the play of
opposites they are ineluctably drawn upward from their buried place toward
discharge, If the whole psychosomatic system is absorbed in and tight with
tension, release of tension cannot get started. The person needs consciously to
disidentify a little from the taut system - then the liberating discharge can
commence.
- There are actually two complementary principles involved in this
disidentification: the initial loosening of the system, and the drawing power
of contradictory assertions - that is, thoughts and words that contradict or
are quite outside the gloom generated by the hidden distress have the effect of
drawing that distress out into discharge. This notion of contradicting or
moving away from the inner gloom in order to bring its underlying buried pain
into discharge is an elegant principle of unfailing practical potency.
- In general, balance of attention means that the client always has
some attention outside the discharge process, so she is not swept away by a
cathartic upheaval that is oblivious to time, place, other persons and even the
self. She is poised between the involuntary somatic upheaval and the arena of
voluntary attention maintained outside this, an arena from which she can
facilitate and guide the release, going deeper or shallower, coming to a close,
as available time and the inner dynamic require. I have in mind here, of
course, a skilled client who is managing her own catharsis with the supportive
presence of another person, as in co-counselling.
- Balance of attention also means that in practice the client will
only work with levels of distress that are readily available, "on top of the
pile", which she can progressively discharge in a relatively undisruptive way,
so that the daily management of life is enhanced rather than disturbed. By
working from a zone of free attention outside the distress, the skilled client
guarantees that the deeper distresses will surface slowly in their own good
time, reaching discharge point only when the person can effectively handle
them.
- The release. From the zone of free attention, the person takes
off the inhibitory control and lets the somatic convulsions - the sobbing, the
trembling, the storming, the laughing - occur, while experiencing, opening
consciousness to, the previously occluded pain of grief, fear, anger, shame.
The distress convulses body and mind, but is in turn consumed by this
acceptance. The experienced client will avoid premature closure which cuts off
the discharge before all available distress at that working level is cleared.
- Spontaneous insight. Catharsis generates spontaneous insight,
and the insight is just as important and valuable as the release of distress
emotions. To return to the record theory, stress inhibits flexible,
discriminating appraisal so that distress situations are recorded in the
psychosomatic system in rigid, stereotypic way. Congealed distress is like wax
on which a series of stereotypic oppressor-victim situations are recorded. The
mind contracts under stress, so to speak, so that it has only a restricted
grasp of the stress situation - "he oppressor; me victim; no escape; pain and
panic, but cut it off and play possum". Elaborated by replays this record can
become a chronic distorted construct in the way a person sees and reacts to her
world. Discharge of distress has the effect of breaking up the distorted
construct, liberating the mind to make a truly discriminating appraisal of what
was really going on in the early critical incidents and in subsequent replays.
- The person's intelligence, previously occluded and inhibited by
emotional tension, will, as the tension discharges off, spontaneously
re-evaluate the tension inducing situations and their subsequent effects. The
basic insight here is a dynamic one: the person sees clearly what it was she as
an authentic person really needed, sees how this need, interrupted and frozen,
has together with the associated pain been the hidden motive force behind an
elaborate set of distorted behaviours. Associated insights liberate other
figures in the early drama from oppressor stereotypes so that they are seen in
the round, as humans with all their facets.
- The idea that a therapist or counsellor should give the client
her own interpretations, insights, analyses, categorisations of the client's
past and its relation with the present is ludicrous to anyone who has seen the
flood of post-cathartic insight in the deeply discharged person. Interpreting
to the client is a repressive process for both client and counsellor. For the
counsellor, systematic interpretation applied to others is a form of double
treason: it manipulates the client in order to keep at bay post-cathartic
insight in the counsellor herself.
- Celebration. The liberation of distress from the human system
is simply a prelude to the celebration that follows it. This is a celebration
of human identity, of the re-emergence of specifically human capacities, of
being fully present to oneself and others. The post-cathartic person needs
space, both verbally and non-verbally, for this expressive delight in her
authentic humanness. This is the phase of emergence from the shadow, of
reclaiming the heritage of a warm heart, a flexible intelligence, an
adventurous will. This is also a phase of sharing, of reaching out to others,
of reciprocal delight.
- On the practical side, celebration may also mean action-planning
and goal-setting, the re-organisation of personal and professional life, in
details or in substance, in order to give systematic expression to the values
of emergent capacities.
- Amidst the heavy repressions of the non-cathartic society
celebration of self will often present itself, initially, to the uninitiated
adult as inconceivable, an embarrassing and deluded phantasy. In my experience
this attitude invariably boils down to a deeply embedded programme that
reiterates the person's innate nastiness - and this programme invariably has a
strongly repressive function. It takes courage and clarity to take the needle
off the old record and sing a very different song.
- Affirmation of the values of personal being can become a
conscious meta-programme, an intentional way of living in which a person
celebrates in attitude and behaviour, herself, others and the given world.
C. The effects of catharsis
Two immediate effects have already been covered in the previous section.
I will re-iterate them briefly here, then move on to longer term effects,
- Spontaneous insight. This includes re-evaluation of the past
traumatic event - insight into what was really going on, together with insight
into connection between such an event and subsequent behaviour.
- Celebration of personal being. The beaming human person, as
distinct from the shadowy distressed person, emerges through the cathartic
release.
- Break-up of distorted behaviour. As old frozen human needs are
identified by spontaneous insight, and the pain and tension that buried them is
discharged, the person now has the inner freedom and flexibility to bring those
needs awarely to fulfilment in present time. It is thus open to the person to
cease living compulsively and to choose to live intentionally - to make
conscious choices that relate fundamental needs to present realities. Catharsis
does not automatically regenerate behaviour, but it liberates a person from
distorting compulsions so that she can freely choose new behaviour. But the
conscious act of choice has to be made.
- Nor should, in my view, a crude hydraulic model be used. Such a
model might argue that first of all you have to drain off the total pool of
distress in which paralytic distorted behaviour lurks, before that behaviour is
rendered impotent and new behaviour can begin. A preferable model is that as
soon as discharge of distress liberates enough insight into the dynamic of the
distorted behaviour, then a person can start to live intentionally. The old
distortions may still have some energy in them, may still tend to leap out of
the bushes when the situation that provokes them occurs, but now that the
person understands what makes them leap, she can choose to replace them with
alternative and more adaptive, effective behaviours. In other words, catharsis
can reduce the charge on distorted behaviour tendencies to the point at which
the person has enough attention outside them, in their provoking situations, to
choose to keep them out of behaviour and to create new and self-fulfilling
responses.
- Living in abundant time. Sustained catharsis generates a great
deal of free attention - attention that has been liberated from the constraints
of past distress. The result is a much greater awareness of present time
reality, of what is here and now occurring in the given world, with a greater
capacity to respond appropriately and flexibly to it. For many people this is
an altered state of consciousness, for ordinary consciousness so often has a
charge of anxiety on the memory of past events, which restricts the ability to
notice in a thoroughly aware way what is going on now. Distress emotion hooked
on to the past puts both very severe blinkers and a distorting lens on
perception of the present.
- But living in abundant time is more than living in present time.
It is possible to be very here and now in terms of immediate sensory awareness
yet to be also dissociated from past and future. Living in abundant time means
being aware of what is present, with an openness to and a sense of the
re-evaluated past, and with an openness to and a sense of the emergent
possibilities of the future that are pouring into the present.
- To be very present is also to be alive to what is about to become
and to what by choice can be brought into being. Choice is very much shaped by
the creative impact of the future on the present, dynamic possibilities elected
by the will; but the freedom to make such choices presupposes an aware
liberation from and re-evaluation of the constraints of the past. The present
lived out of the future through a restructuring insight into the past - some
such aphorism as this comes close to the concept of living in abundant time.
- Synchronous events. This is the controversial notion of a
greater correspondence between events without and development within. The
assumption is that as my own degrees of freedom increase internally through the
break-up of old rigidities, external opportunities present themselves that
correlate with the newfound liberty to explore new possibilities. Such an
assumption rests on a far-reaching metaphysical theory that the traditional
notion of efficient causality conceived in terms of sequential cause and effect
needs to be related to an entirely different notion of causality conceived in
terms of simultaneous resonance.
D. Processes that complement
catharsis
It would be absurd to argue that catharsis is in and by itself a
sufficient condition of human development. I do not for a moment believe that
it is anything more than a necessary condition, needing to be complemented by
other necessary conditions before anything like a sufficient account of human
development comes into view. Some of these complementary necessary conditions
seem to me to be:
- Creative thinking. A person needs to think out what kind of a
world she wants, what her values and priorities are, what are rational means to
rational ends given the current state of play in society and nature. Catharsis
may liberate consciousness to think more relevantly and humanly, to apply
intelligence in non-evasive, non-compulsive ways. But creative thinking is an
independent act of clarification that has to be chosen in its own right. People
do not think by catharting; they only think by deciding to think.
- Creative choosing. Goal-setting, action-planning, conscious
risk-taking, intentional living, fully self-directed and purposive behaviour:
again catharsis may liberate a person from the tensions that inhibit these
processes, but the challenge of the new inner freedom and insight still has to
be met by choosing - to re-structure the outer circumstances of life to accord
more with the values emerging within, to take initiative that enhance human
flourishing in the domestic, the social, the professional and the political
domains. The point about such choosing is that it represents the values that
have emerged by inner growth, rather than values imposed by an ideology rooted
in repressed and distorted emotion.
- Expansion of consciousness. Catharsis functions at a
relatively crude level of psychosomatic energy, involving gross somatic
convulsions. Transpersonal techniques shift consciousness onto subtler levels
of awareness and give access to a wide range of refining and cohering energies.
I have presented a typology of such transmutative techniques in Helping the
Client (Heron, 1990) together with a discussion of the relation between the
cathartic and the transpersonal. The important point, I believe, is that the
two types of process, the cathartic and the subtle contemplative-transmutative,
are complementary. Misused, either can become a systematic defense against
entering fully the domain of the other. Appropriately used, each can balance
and enhance in a life-affirmative way the other. And each may produce the other
as a by-product. Thus sustained practice of some meditation methods may lead
incidentally to the phenomenon of unstressing, when the meditator finds herself
unaccountably crying, trembling or laughing. Sustained catharsis brings the
person very fully into present time, giving acutely enhanced perception of
phenomena and taking consciousness to the very threshold of access to subtle
levels of awareness. Finally, there is an interaction of the two approaches
which is central in resolving the constraining effects of what I have called
primary distress recordings. For details of this see the section on
transpersonal direction-holding in my Co-Counselling
Manual (Heron, 1998). And for a theory that sets the whole of human
distress within a transpersonal context, see Chapter 19: Co-creating, in
Sacred Science (Heron, 1998).
- When catharsis is misused, its practice is invariably built
around with rigid, authoritarian and inflexible theorising. Such dogma is
itself a distortion rooted in unresolved and unidentified fear of the unknown
to which transpersonal methods give access. When meditation is misused, its
practice is harnessed to repressive mechanisms so that the whole elaborate
edifice of mind-expansion buries early, perhaps chronic, distress, without
resolving it. Such distress in my view continues to have significant and
clearly detectable distorting effects on behaviour: spiritual authoritarianism,
inability of the guru to relate on a peer basis, dogmatic intuitionism,
rejection of the body, messianic delusions, compulsive proselytising,
uncritical and undiscriminating guru-worship, and so on.
- It is useful in this respect to postulate a very general
principle to the effect that everything has to be dealt with at its own level
in a manner appropriate to that level. Somatic humans have to deal with their
very human tensions at a somatic level. Trying to deal with them entirely by
transpersonal work simply leaves a lot of unacknowledged and unfinished
business lying around - and for those with eyes to see it shows in all kinds of
systematically deluded responses and behaviours. But Reich and some other
pioneers of radical catharsis have made the complementary error: they have
rejected all mysticism and meditation as an aberration, seeing only its
repressive use, and refusing to acknowledge its liberating use. Then they
propound the somatic myth: the delusion of human development conceived
exclusively in terms of psychosomatic liberation - the free flow of emotion in
and with and through the body. They should study the literature on
out-of-the-body experiences.
- Culture of the body. Sensory awareness, conscious breathing,
diet, dynamic yoga, dance, movement and relaxation methods: all these, and
others, are ways of organising and cohering physical processes, with a
significant effect on mental processes. They can be seen as an affirmation and
celebration - non-verbally - of human identity, apart from their purely
physical beneficial effects.
- Art. There is a close relationship between the aesthetic and
the cathartic. I have already alluded in
Chapter 1 to how various forms
of art may have a cathartic effect. On the other hand, art, whether as
creation, interpretation or appreciation, may have an effect complementary to
that of explicit catharsis. It provides a way of organising, refining and
transmuting emotion through the development of and response to symbolic forms.
It purges by transmutation as well as by explicit release. While at the same
time it offers a mode of knowing irreducible to any other.
E. Cognition and catharsis
It is entirely illusory to suppose that catharsis can be separated from
cognitive processes. Here are some of the ways in which they interact.
- Theory framework. A psychodynamic theory that provides a sound
rationale for cathartic behaviour is in my view a necessary precursor to
initiating it in others. The theory itself can predispose a person to remove
repressive and redundant controls. And it provides a secure cognitive framework
for descent into the well of emotional discharge. In co-counselling training I
always start with a theory and discussion session, and only invite those
present to get into the practical work on themselves when they find the theory
a sufficiently persuasive basis for doing so. Sound theory provides guidelines
for responsible, aware release of distress emotions. And to return periodically
to review and refine the concepts that clarify to human understanding the
cathartic process, is an important part of sustaining that process in
growth-promoting ways.
- Theory revision. If catharsis is one of the necessary
processes whereby human beings liberate their distress-occluded intelligence,
as well as their capacities for love and creative will, then that process
surely comes of age when the liberated intelligence reviews the theoretical
assumptions in terms of which it has been liberated. The cognitive and the
experiential circle round each other, ideally, in mutually enhancing ways. What
I call experiential research, and co-operative inquiry (Heron, 1996), involves
two or more persons systematically in a three stage process, which may be
repeated cyclically several times:
- They agree intellectually on a plausible psychodynamic theory.
- They cash it out experientially on their own growth and
behaviour, using some form of reciprocal support, and for a significant period
of time.
- They review the original theory in the light of their experience
of systematically living through its practical implications.
- Pre-cathartic open association. Following the chain of
spontaneous associations, the thoughts and images that arise unbidden - if
there is sufficient attention outside the distress - to start off a working
session.
- Pre-cathartic intention. A person may start a co-counselling
session, for example, with a clear notion of what she wants to work on. The
unresolved area of distress has been conceptually identified. This is a kind of
directed or focussed pre-cathartic association: the spontaneous associations
are invited to arise around an intentional focus. Or, more elaborately, a
personal cognitive map of the distorted psyche may be made as a basis for
subsequent working: this, in fact, has already been done in broad outline by
anyone who accepts the theory framework in 1. above.
- Pre-cathartic disidentification. This means disidentifying
from distress recordings with their restricted deficiency view of the self and
the world: generating a focus of attention outside the distress as a necessary
prelude to discharging it. This means a cognitive shift: talking about positive
experiences outside the distress; reconstruing the distress experience in a
comprehensive way in order to contradict the restrictive concepts in which it
is bound.
- Pre-cathartic cognitive reversal. This is closely related to
the previous method. It is a way of defining the cognitive shift made in
disidentification from distress: a person reverses her perspective on the
distress-experience instead of seeing it compulsively in the deficiency
concepts in which it is bound, she chooses to construe it from a wider more
inclusive and abundant perspective.
- Cathartic insight. The discharge process itself may be
launched by the sudden identification within one's being of the buried voice of
pain or frozen need.
- Post-cathartic insight. The spontaneous flow of dynamic
insight following catharsis, as described in previous sections.
- Disidentification and cognitive reversals in daily life.
Already alluded to above (C. The effects of
catharsis 3). When old distress-distorted behaviour tendencies have lost
some of their distorting charge through emotional discharge, then the person
can effectively disidentify from them when they are provoked by the old
stimuli, and reconstrue the provoking situation in abundance rather than
deficiency terms. See my account of the reversal cycle in Feeling and
Personhood (Heron, 1992, 214-215). A classic reversal in terms of the
theory presented in this work would be to replace seeing and responding to
difficult people as nasty and unpleasant, by seeing them and responding to them
as potentially abundant humans trapped by their buried pain in distorted
behaviour: the former construct generates a limited, limiting and inflexible
repertoire of response, whereas the latter construct can generate a wide range
of flexible alternative behaviours - based on the crucial distinction between
the person and the distortion.
A central theoretical question is whether it is possible effectively to
resolve distorted behaviour by cognitive means alone, by first of all
understanding the dynamic of distorted behaviour, and then by defusing in daily
life and in contemplation distorted attitudes and tendencies as they arise.
Such defusing would mean seeing the attitudes and tendencies for what they are,
and dismantling their energy by removing the cognitive distortions built into
them. This involves both witnessing the dynamic contents of consciousness and
reconstruing them in the light of some general psychodynamic theory. The
resolution of this question is for experiential research. My belief is that
both the capacity to witness and to reconstruct can be greatly aided by the
discharge process.
F. Transmutation and
catharsis
What I have referred to just above as disidentification and cognitive
reversals in daily life is a basic kind of transmutation, made possible by
previous catharsis, but not itself involving further catharsis. The distorted
behaviour tendency still has an energy charge within it, but this charge is
transmuted into constructive responses that follow from reconstruing the
situation. How we appraise a situation, how we see it, largely determines our
emotional and behavioural response to it. Congealed distress compels us to see
situations in deficiency terms - as situations that limit, deprive, oppress,
restrict - and so we respond as victims. After some measure of cathartic
competence is attained, a person can start to choose to see situations in
abundance terms, - as situations that provide new opportunities - and so
respond creatively and intentionally.
From this point on emotional and behavioural transmutation becomes a
complement to the cathartic process. If transmutation is used exclusively
without catharsis, there is some danger, in my view, of the process becoming
too cool and dissociated, with repressive distortions creeping in under the
guise of transcendental attitudes and aspirations. Or human warmth, the
capacity for open, spontaneous, reciprocal loving may diminish or never appear.
If catharsis is used exclusively and the person waits to clear the pools of
distress before restructuring behaviour, then emotional release becomes too
much an end in itself, and, I believe, a deluded one, leaving the person a
growth victim.
Where the two processes are used to complement each other, then
rechannelling can take over what catharsis started off: the person is liberated
from the crude hydraulic model of emptying all the pools of distress. But this
complementarity principle needs to be applied with great awareness, to avoid
denial of or premature closure on distress material. When the balance is right,
release of distress energy aids redirection of distress energy
into authentic behaviour, and vice versa - with a total reduction in the amount
of each in favour of spontaneously creative behaviour. Or such, at any rate, is
my working hypothesis.
Transpersonal techniques are types of transmutation and their discussion
above (D. Processes that complement
catharsis 3) relates closely to this section. The same applies to artistic
activity (D. Processes that
complement catharsis 5). For a more comprehensive account of this section
see Chapter 8: Catharsis and transmutation, in Helping the Client
(Heron., 1990)
G. Catharsis, external
displacement and dramatisation
By external displacement I mean the unaware acting out - against other
people or the environment - of repressed distress and of a frozen, interrupted
human need. The resultant distorted behaviour has conventional and socially
tolerated forms, and socially disruptive forms such as hysterical shouting,
uncontrolled verbal aggression, physical assault on persons or property,
physical self-destruction. The point has already been made above (A. Catharsis as such 3) that behaviour
of this sort is not catharsis, but a displacement and evasion of the pain of
the denied feelings. However, some people who are acting out in these
ways may be nearer genuine cathartic release than those whose distorted
behaviour is of a severely controlled, withdrawn and repressive kind. So it is
possible to train them, if the trainer's interventions are sufficiently
authoritative, to flip from external displacement into genuine discharge of a
potent but harmless kind.
Thus persons acting out destructively in, for example, a therapeutic
community, are re-enacting in an exaggerated and symbolic form the
psychological and/or physical violence done to them, in their early lives.
Given the setting, the possibility for a genuine fear and anger discharge is
not, in principle, far away. Persons who act out in this way, are not simply a
danger, a threat and a nuisance, but are ripe for interventions of the skilled
cathartic counsellor. An enlightened psychiatrist in a psychiatric unit for
disturbed adolescents, north of London in the UK, found that such destructive
behaviour significantly reduced after residents acquired intentional cathartic
skills.
External displacement in everyday life needs sooner or later to be
interrupted, in order to enable the person concerned to accept, experience and
get some insight into the psychological pain that is being avoided by and
displaced into the distorted behaviour. The ulterior transactions or games
analysed in transactional analysis are good examples of the kind of the
widespread displacements that occur in conventional social life.
Unresolved distress in children is rapidly displaced into distorted
behaviour: they transfer their pain into compulsive clinging, demanding,
destructive behaviour, spitefulness and malice, stubborn refusal, and in many
other ways. The skilled parent finds some supportive way of interrupting the
distorted behaviour, not just to put an end to it, but in order to facilitate
discharge of the emotional pain which underlies it.
By dramatisation I mean a form of pseudo-catharsis. It often occurs in
the early days when a client in co-ounselling is building up skills in
self-directed cathartic release. Thus a client, within the limits of her
session, may yell or scream or shout or bang the cushion with a low frequency
thud, but in a way that lacks the high frequency spontaneous fiery discharge of
genuine anger. She is really dramatising the external oppressor's end of her
distress recording - symbolically re-enacting the violence done to her - as a
prelude to discharging the fear, grief and the anger trapped at her own end,
the victim's end of the recording. After the screaming, the inexperienced
client, with the deft intervention of a skilled counsellor, may be able to
tolerate and release a genuine discharge. Thus loud and pseudo-angry
dramatisations in the client can be an effective prelude to the true release of
fear, grief and genuine anger.
H. Catharsis and internal
displacement
External displacement is the socially evident distortion of behaviour by
repressed pain. The correlate of this acting out is internal displacement, a
chronic "acting in" against oneself that takes the form of repressive control.
The child can receive a double or treble invalidation:
- Her basic human capacities may be rejected by parents and others.
- The resultant distress may be rejected.
- The resultant distorted behaviour may be rejected.
As a condition of social survival, the child learns to internalise these
invalidations. The resultant repressive programmes within the psyche become
functionally independent of their external sources. This is the control
pattern: an ingrained, chronic attitude of self-deprecation. It continually
says "I'm no good, my basic human impulses are no good, my distress emotions
are no good, my behaviour is no good: I should be something other than I am".
It is a burden of redundant or false guilt and shame, which serves to sustain
repression of the distress emotions and the underlying positive potential.
To attain cathartic competence, a person needs to disidentify from this
very negative self-image, and see it for what it is - an imposed programme that
represses distress and occludes true capacities for creativity and joy. Many
people identify very strongly and unawarely with the imposed negative
self-image, so that they totally confuse their own identity with it. The
process of disidentification, accompanied by bursts of emotional discharge, can
seem very unfamiliar, uncomfortable and alarmingly liberating. In the early
stages of co-counselling a person may, with much support and encouragement,
step out of the control pattern for a brief experience of the unfamiliar
liberation, only to be seen a moment later scurrying back into the familiar
confines of the straightjacket. In the later stages, the person acquires
increasing confidence in stepping out of the control pattern for longer
periods, with the result of sustained discharge in a co-counselling session,
and creative, joyful behaviour in everyday life.